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Julie Alexander 01-10-2023
Julie Alexander
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Migawanyiko huwa ngumu kila wakati, hata iweje! Wengine huchagua kuzungumza juu yake kwa uwazi na wengine huchagua kuhangaika nayo peke yao. Kila mtu hupitia aina hii ya maumivu wakati fulani katika maisha yao, lakini utaratibu wa kukabiliana na hali ni tofauti kwa kila mtu. Hata hivyo, daima kuna upande mzuri kwa kila kitu; maumivu hutufanya kuwa na hekima zaidi, hutufundisha kuona maisha kwa mtazamo tofauti iwe ni njia nzuri au mbaya na inatufanya kuwa na nguvu zaidi. Hatuwezi kumsaidia mtu yeyote kuzidi maumivu yake lakini tunaweza kutoa msukumo wa kukabiliana nayo kupitia baadhi ya dondoo.

Hapa kuna baadhi ya dondoo za kutia moyo ambazo zinaweza kukusaidia kukabiliana na kuvunjika kwa ndoa kwa njia chanya.

Julie Alexander

Melissa Jones ni mtaalamu wa uhusiano na mtaalamu aliyeidhinishwa na uzoefu wa zaidi ya miaka 10 kuwasaidia wanandoa na watu binafsi kubainisha siri za mahusiano yenye furaha na afya bora. Ana Shahada ya Uzamili katika Tiba ya Ndoa na Familia na amefanya kazi katika mazingira mbalimbali, ikiwa ni pamoja na kliniki za afya ya akili za jamii na mazoezi ya kibinafsi. Melissa ana shauku ya kusaidia watu kujenga uhusiano thabiti na wenzi wao na kupata furaha ya kudumu katika uhusiano wao. Katika muda wake wa ziada, anafurahia kusoma, kufanya mazoezi ya yoga, na kutumia wakati na wapendwa wake. Kupitia blogu yake, Decode Happier, Healther Relationship, Melissa anatarajia kushiriki ujuzi na uzoefu wake na wasomaji duniani kote, kuwasaidia kupata upendo na uhusiano wanaotaka.