你在恋爱吗？ 还是只是美好的性爱？ 想知道如何识别爱情和欲望的区别？ 毕竟，两者有时会重叠。 而没有欲望的爱情是不完整的，不是吗？
英国作家C.S.刘易斯说："与欲望被扼杀后所产生的丰富和能量相比，欲望是一种可怜的、软弱的、呜咽的、低语的东西。" 另一种说法是："没有爱的欲望是快乐，有爱的欲望是激情。 没有欲望的爱是纯洁的，有欲望的爱是诗歌。"
See_also: 金牛座男人和处女座女人在关系中的兼容性那么，这到底是欲望还是爱？ 你是否把压倒性的身体吸引误认为是爱？ 参加这个简单的测验，仅由七个问题组成，找出答案。
See_also: 10个问题要问你不忠的配偶最后，咨询师Neelam Vats说："恋爱中的人通常对他们的爱人有一种强大的同理心。 当你无条件地爱一个人时，把对方的痛苦当作自己的痛苦，并愿意为对方牺牲一切，这是很自然的。" 所以，如果缺少这种同理心，也许这只是欲望。
Melissa Jones is a relationship expert and licensed therapist with over 10 years of experience helping couples and individuals decode the secrets to happier and healthier relationships. She holds a Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and has worked in a variety of settings, including community mental health clinics and private practice. Melissa is passionate about helping people build stronger connections with their partners and achieve long-lasting happiness in their relationships. In her spare time, she enjoys reading, practicing yoga, and spending time with her own loved ones. Through her blog, Decode Happier, Healthier Relationship, Melissa hopes to share her knowledge and experience with readers around the world, helping them find the love and connection they desire.